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Homeless But Not Hopeless
How i regained my Joy & Peace
Homeless But Not Hopeless
August 2020 i found myself along with my two daughters homeless. Life happened and it happen during the pandemic. I never thought I would be homeless. We stayed in a motel for 40 days. And in those 40 days i found myself Homeless But Not Hopeless. God was with me the whole way, and he had been preparing me for this. This is were my deep
August 2020 i found myself along with my two daughters homeless. Life happened and it happen during the pandemic. I never thought I would be homeless. We stayed in a motel for 40 days. And in those 40 days i found myself Homeless But Not Hopeless. God was with me the whole way, and he had been preparing me for this. This is were my deeper relationship with God began. Where i relinquished full control of my life to God. Trusting him COMPLETELY!
You matter
How i regained my Joy & Peace
Homeless But Not Hopeless
For most of my life i put others before me. But i knew in this situation i couldn’t. I had to choose me. 2020 i chose myself & my life has never been better. I realized I matter. How I feel matters. I always say “ The people that mind don’t matter & the people that matter don’t mind”
How i regained my Joy & Peace
How i regained my Joy & Peace
How i regained my Joy & Peace
Having no Joy & Peace was absolutely scary to me. I made a decision while i was in that motel that i would fully allow God to lead me. It’s not easy and sometimes i fail. But i made a conscious decision that i want what God has for me. I sat in his presence longer. I worshipped more intensely. I was fighting for my life. I was fighting for my kids lives.……..
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Sis you are NOT your Traumas
Sis you are NOT your Traumas
Sis you are NOT your Traumas
So many of us have gone through some very traumatic experiences. And because of those experiences we change how we interact with others & how we view ourselves. Well sis I’m here to tell you YOU ARE NOT YOUR TRAUMAS! You can heal from what has happened to you and be free.
Standards
Sis you are NOT your Traumas
Sis you are NOT your Traumas
Set your standards & keep them. Setting your standards keeps you from settling. And it lessens the risk of wasting your time with the wrong person. Standards sets the tone for how people will treat you. It informs people on what you will and won’t allow. What you will and won’t accept.
Self Love
Sis you are NOT your Traumas
Self Love
Before you can love anybody else you must love yourself. Self love is necessary. Self-care is a form of self love. Pamper yourself ladies. Take a spa day. Get your nails done get a facial. Take the time to love on yourself first.
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Preparation is Key
Communication is Key
Communication is Key
We all have things we‘re praying and expecting God to do for us. But we have to make sure we are prepared for what we asked for. Preparation helps the flow of the task at hand. So if you can help it never go into anything blind. Always come prepared.
Communication is Key
Communication is Key
Communication is Key
Effective communication is skill that’s taught. Just because you can keep up a conversation doesn’t mean you have effective communication. Effective communication includes listening to understand and not just to respond. It’s talking with a purpose and not just talking to be heard. In effectively communicating both parties feel heard and
Effective communication is skill that’s taught. Just because you can keep up a conversation doesn’t mean you have effective communication. Effective communication includes listening to understand and not just to respond. It’s talking with a purpose and not just talking to be heard. In effectively communicating both parties feel heard and they both choose their words wisely. It feels more like a peaceful situation than a battle field.
Address Your Trauma
What healing looks like
What healing looks like
So many disagreements & misunderstandings can be avoided when we address our traumas head on. When we don’t address them they show up in our relationships & our partner can be blindsided by them. We have to start the healing process before we get into serious relationships that way we will be able to identify our traumas and triggers
What healing looks like
What healing looks like
What healing looks like
Healing looks different on everyone. Healing is taking care of yourself mind body and soul. Self care is healing. Take moments were you put your needs and wants first. Take yourself on a date. Book a therapy session. Therapy is so needed. Speak to a professional who can guide you on your healing journey. Find a community. Community is a s
Healing looks different on everyone. Healing is taking care of yourself mind body and soul. Self care is healing. Take moments were you put your needs and wants first. Take yourself on a date. Book a therapy session. Therapy is so needed. Speak to a professional who can guide you on your healing journey. Find a community. Community is a support group who can relate and help you through whatever you’re going through.